July: Truth Vs Emotions – is it year 2o14 all over again?
We will be kindly reminded of all which we might wish to forget from the year 2014. You guested it, we won’t be able to do so. Be brave enough to change all the parts of your life that need growth. Extract the good from the bad and be a man of your word.
Honesty is the only way to go about things this time. Trying to tell a lie will make us feel as we were slapped in the face, before we even get a chance to fully utter it. Skeletons from the past will have a party. No, we won’t get bored, not even for a minute.
One way to go about this is: emotional numbness. Go offline. Close the door of your heart. Turn off your feelings.
Well, we know we can’t just put them out as if they were fire – and I imagine we have tried. What if you simply just recognized how you feel at this point? You do not need to do anything about it (yet). Just admit what you feel.
You can run away, but you always take yourself with you.
The need to belong will be prevail. Of course, the feeling of loneliness will be more intense as well. Know that the only person who actually spends its whole life with you – is YOU. Take time to learn the art of loving yourself.
Building a positive self-esteem and a healthy relationship with you will be the key theme of this period. I encourage you to exercise setting boundaries and establishing your own authority, demand respect.
Trust is another thing we will be focusing on. Trust is earned, not given. Once it’s lost, it’s hard to regain it. So, allow me a question: were you disappointed in you at some point of time & now you simply don’t trust that you will succeed?
Maybe you don’t trust or believe that you deserve the best?
HomeWork for the soul:
- What is your inner voice saying when you’re angry at yourself?
- When and why were you disappointed in you?
- Promise yourself that you’ll never again be unloving towards yourself.
- You will spend somewhere around 80 to 90 years with yourself. Don’t you think it would be wise to be kind, loving and patient with yourself?
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